• NoForwadSlashS@piefed.social
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    5 days ago

    A loving relationship where the woman is older than the man, oh the horror.

    Everyone knows real power is from geriatric men marrying children who were trafficked just for them.

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      5 days ago

      While that may be true, teachers having relations with minor pupils is generally rife for abuse.

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                3 days ago

                That’s true, but “grooming” is a question of morality. it’s a specific term involving people are under the age of consent. It’s not “grooming” just because you find the relationship immoral.

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                  A 15 year old does not have the mental capacity to understand that they are being groomed. Grooming should be illegal, however it’s tied to the legal precedent set by age of consent laws.

                  I can’t believe I’m having this conversation, a 17 year old should not be in a relationship with a 41 year old.

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                    2 days ago

                    I have change my mind somewhat since making these comments.

                    While Macron was at school they were certainly testing societal boundaries, even if French notions about such things are more relaxed.

                    You’re right, if my 15yo daughter was spending time with a 39yo guy I would be murderous.

                    However, I’m not French, it’s not the 90s, they’ve been married for 20 years now. By all accounts it’s been fulfilling and satisfying marriage…

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        4 days ago

        Adults meet minors all the time. Some teachers will meet hundreds in their career. What’s your point ?

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      4 days ago

      It’s the same on reddit. The demographic seems to have very narrow ideas about who ought to be having sex with whom. If there’s no minors, and no harm, then let people do what they want.