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    Abusers choose language where the meaning behind it is coercive. It makes it hard to convey emotional meaning with someone who had to learn these survival skills. One might be seeking connection and that intent sits in the same space where others seeking to manipulate placed theirs.

    It’s normal to have that style of communication and simultaneously feel gas-lit by people speaking with decent intent.

    For the other stuff therapy can be effective if you get the right therapist and imo not someone peddling sympathy.