• Cruxifux@feddit.nl
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    2 months ago

    Banning elbows not being allowed on the table and hats not being allowed indoors are also wins for me

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      Elbows have always been allowed on the table. The rule for fancy dining was that you couldn’t have elbows on the table during a course, i.e., when people are actively eating, but before/after, it’s fine. That’s a reasonable rule to be considerate of space.

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        Never been an issue for me. The issue would be invading someone’s personal space. Maybe we just have bigger tables where I live.

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        If elbows aren’t allowed on a table during a course of a fancy dinner, they have definitely not always been allowed on the table.

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            If you have a large number of people eating in comparison to the size of the table, and the table is already covered in food, the only place on the table to put your elbows is in other people’s personal space.

            The rule should be “no elbows right next to someone else’s food” but neurotypicals are terrible at communicating due to their underdeveloped social skills and empathy.

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              People other than you, who are not “neurotypicals” whatever tf that even means, are able to accomplish seating large amounts of people at a table and use basic table manners just fine. It’s just common courtesy.

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            Respect. Culture. Table manners.
            Take your pick.

            Edit. Personal eating space is probably the most realistic answer.

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          Well it’s never been an issue in any space I’ve eaten in, so I think you’re wrong.

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            Good to know you’ve never sat at a table with a lot of people, I guess? Or next to an opposite handed person.

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    …but then your clothes might look like you’ve worn them before.

    What are you? Poor?

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        Close enough. You can come in the club. There’s dunkaroos in the back if you’re hungry.

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          I thought they discontinued dunkaroos, but then my wife came home with a box of them for my kids.

          I tried one (disgusting); I remember them being a lot better.

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            Hard to tell if it is actually worse or a false memory, because they originally came out when garbage sugar-laced food science was really taking off targeting the younger demographic.

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              I keep having this argument with my mom. She keeps trying to tell me it’s because I’m older and my taste bus have changed. I’ll admit my preference in flavor may have broadened but all my favorite snacks and candy from the late 80s and early 90s have been terribly inshitafide. My absolute favorite was skittles. The apple ruined them but then they finally caved and put lime back in only to change the receipt altogether which ruined them a second time. At least one of the ingredients is illegal in most countries at this point.

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      It is, if you don’t have to do it all the damn time. If you just iron your clothes when you want/need to, it’s an enjoyable chore.

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    all ya’ll admitting to ironing your clothes in the comments are a bunch of dweebs, just saying.

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    Speak for yourself. Casual clothes killed most ironing but ain’t nobody showing up in a wrinkled suit.

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    You guys don’t iron clothes?

    I’m a millennial and I iron my clothes, how do you get the wrinkles out??? Teach me your secrets

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      Don’t use the dryer on shirts and the like. Shake them a bit then hang them up to dry and let gravity do the work.

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        Don’t shake them too hard or they stretch. But hang everything absofuckinglutely immediately after they’re outta the washer or dryer. Like rn.