like “supporting” someone with adhd but hating them and believing they should be shunned or treated differently for interrupting others, not paying attention, and not being able to sit still, rather than try to help them or tell them not to interrupt the conversation.
or “supporting” deaf people but getting mad because they only talk sign language and can’t hear what you say.
I have quite a few disorders and i’ve been talked abt and treated like shit for it, and not just because I have the disorder but because im different. I don’t fit in anywhere and never will.
all of my “friends” talk shit abt me and my disabilities, and then one person is always like “oh yeah, this person said this about you and they hate that you can’t pay attention, and that person says you should jump off a cliff!”
Yes, its ableist. Excluding, insulting or discriminating against people for disability is basically the definition, reguardless of what they claim. Saying they’re not ableist doesn’t change it, any more than saying something like, “I’m not racist, but…”
Even if they’re a psychotic, narcissistic, abusive piece of human garbage?
No.
I’d you dislike them for those reasons and not because they’re disabled that’s fine. Disabled people can be bad people too
I’m agreeing with you.
associating psychosis and narcissism with being abusive is textbook ableism, so yeah
They both go hand and hand with both narcissism, and psychosis.
But you do you.