Sober 5+ years on both :)

Yes sry for the blurry photo

Nah my camera app is garbage and honestly I didn’t even realize it was blurry until just now LOL

“It matters not.” Is my personal favorite. Very helpful.

OK

you can swear on the internet

Borgbackup to a Hetzner storage box is a great solution for large (> 100GB) backups.

https://www.borgbackup.org/

https://community.hetzner.com/tutorials/install-and-configure-borgbackup/

Love it love it LOVE IT !!

Those are rookie numbers! Pump that up!

I’ve been dating my love for several years. I am morning person, they are night owl.

I have never been bothered or annoyed when they wake up early and demand bed cuddles.

It helps that coffee puts me to sleep lol

So it turns out… you can’t connect them anymore… The feature is deprecated

https://docs.cockpit-project.org/cockpit-guide/latest/guide/feature-machines.html

(also, I wanted to just link my response from another user who had asimilar question but for whateVER reasyon, Alx won’t let me??)

So I actually just went to make a guide on this, demonstrating on my ubuntu 26.04 lab vps, and it appears the connect option is not there.

However on my 24.04 lab vps, it’s there. Same with my local 22.04 systems (yes I know I have to upgrade lmao)

I went to cockpit docks and sure enough, the feature is deprecated :( Dang.

https://docs.cockpit-project.org/cockpit-guide/latest/guide/feature-machines.html

It was really cool though while it worked.

Cockpit. Total gamechanger for me. I don’t have to ssh to my boxes individually to see what’s going on. Instead it’s a web UI AND you can connect basically every server you want to one instance.

https://github.com/cockpit-project/cockpit

That said. For individual servers?

htop/nmon (Get nmon straight from the source! https://nmon.sourceforge.io/pmwiki.php) for a birds-eye sysmon view of things

ps -ef | grep <whatever you're looking for> for investigating stuck/hung/zombie processes

dmseg

tail -f /var/log (or whatever log file you care about)

netstat for net statistics (i think ntop used to be a thing but idk anymore>…)

df -h to look at disk usage

those are all that come to mind right away.

EDIT: formatting and quick explanation of what each tool does

FAM of course!!! 🫂🫂🫂

YES all this exactly! My hair is longer than what most “men” shmpoo is cut out for, and ive been usinf femm shampoo for ages (thanks poverty and growing up with 3 sisters) so it’s a no-brainer for me.

Except I can’t tolerate the mentol-enhanced shower gels. They don’t feel good at all on my skin, but rather a burning sensation.

Same girl, same! We in the same boat~

Oh man I love this so much BC its true.

Feminine products are amazing, smell GREAT, and thw packaging is visually more pleasing to look at.

Men’s stuff is just… Bland. Smells like chemicals or generic “nature” scents. And ths packing is just monochromatic n bORING.

The only thing that bothers me about fem products is the girl tax/pink tax. Shaving products come to mind.

But otherwise fem products are great~~

As soon as I saw the image, I had a feeling it was you! Thanks for sharing. Love these posts ^_

Got me lmaooooo this one’s good!