Noodlez

JFC, some of these responses here about I ‘should’ do this or that. This is precisely why Reddit and most social media is cancer and people filled with 0 social and life skills.

I shouldn’t have to do anything. If you have an issue with my crying child, the onus is on you to find another space for yourself to make yourself comfortable instead of mandating what other people should/should not do.

Does that mean that parents should let their kids run around? Hell no. But this also means that you stop acting like another baby and find a way to adjust just like everyone else incl other parents."

FTFY. The problem with this argument is it’s just as self-centered as the others. If your child starts crying or throwing a fit, go to the bathroom or something, soothe it, and come back. It’s not that hard. If your child isn’t poorly behaved, it won’t cause any other problems. Don’t let your child bother other people by being a nuissance. It’s not on them it’s not their child.

These are only definite articles, not pronouns.

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Okay a genuine question, what is the method to not let them do this to us? The legitimate only way I can think of is completely disconnecting from society, but this is near impossible because it’s near impossible to find a place you can become self-sustainable, and it also takes a lot to even accrue the wealth to have the means to become self-sustainable, which means beimg a part of this society.

Mm this could be a problem because server load is too unpredictable. I would actually say just randomize the list, so that it kinda does its own “load balancing” by incentivizing to pick whatever random top one it selected?

Hmm actually yeah this is a good idea, but the problem is that there’s so many servers that I feel that after choosing criteria there’d still be a bunch of servers in the list and the problem remains, right? Just bouncing ideas. I quite like this idea though.

How?

I love invidious. Unfortunately Google is starting to block and rate limit any invidious instances that they detect :(.

I don’t think I’ve seen anybody using that anymore… I mostly see people posting their peertube stuff on other platforms.