Thanks for the solidarity! I get that sometimes but tbh I get a zillion notifications and rarely read them

I’m not. I really am dreadful

Yep “i play golf with their dad so…”

Yes she did. And youre welcome

There’s a lot of concerns about the investigation. The police arrive to 3 dead children and a woman with catastrophic injuries and the husband saying she did it. The husband’s phone or phone records weren’t seized, as far as I can work out his clothing wasnt seized, her apple watch wasnt seized, blood on the bedroom door knob wasn’t swabbed, there’s a roughly 15 minute gap in the timeline where he’s not accounted for, and multiple other things. His phone should have been seized cos apart from anything else, the cops may not have been able to get into hers.

The children deserved a high quality investigation and didn’t get it. A lot of people have understandable concerns about the evidence.

YES

I am SO uncomfortable with the idea of handing images of my id over.

I read your comment 3 times and still can’t fathom it

Yep and a bunch of laypeople are doing it. Not MH experts, not doctors, random people.

I know. She didn’t wake up one day with serious MH issues, she’d been repeatedly told what she needed to do. She didn’t do it. She’s also shown intent eg killing the kids in the basement where she’s less likely to be caught. What happens next time she doesn’t take her medication? And how is her MH likely to IMPROVE now she’s responsible for killing her kids, paralysed and gone through the court case?

Whichever way you look at it, 3 beautiful children are dead. And it’s just fucking awful

Thank you

Yep… the info in the media pointed to lone actor grievance fuelled violence. You can’t shoot someone cos you think they’re vile

BBC livestream

That’s a really nice comment! Incase you’re not following them I hit !wholesome@reddthat.com !aww@lemmy.world and !dogs@lemmy.world with art most days

That’s just fantasy talk

Haha I get that

I’m impressed you know the owl type

It really is hard mate and I’m glad you’re reaching out. When I need my dad I go to !dadforaminute@lemmy.world and get a pep talk advice or any kind of dad moment. Loads of lemmy dads post there

I’m torn. On the one hand it’s horrible thinking of an LGBT+ person being so filled with self hatred that they have to live a lie. Speaking anecdotally, it can lead to these men hurting men they have sex with cos that man knows his “dirty secret” and the self loathing spills out onto them. But at the same time Graham was filled with hate and caused a lot of pain. So I’m torn.

Ditto.