She claims it changed a month ago but never said it’s over between us concretely, neither did I ask, so that’s on me.
Dude… Just no. If she was done with the relationship it was her responsibility to inform you. Don’t gaslight yourself just because it’s hard to be upset with her.
If you were in a relationship and she didn’t end it, and then proceeded to date someone else, that’s cheating.
She could have just told you, she chose to go behind your back. And it’s not because she was scared of hurting you, if that was the case she wouldn’t have cheated on you.
Good luck out there.
I thought it said hug 😔