• merc@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    you basically have to guess their gender or just ask them what they like more.

    That seems like a perfectly reasonable way to proceed. Why would that be an issue?

    • Darthjaffacake@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      If they don’t want to be called either, which I think is reasonable. Or if you’re talking about someone who you don’t know, we don’t have this problem because they is just so general