The writer got mad when a goblin shoved Astarion off a cliff. It reminded me of when I had Karlach shove a goblin in lava, then a goblin ran up and shoved HER in the lava. I didn’t get mad; I took it as a learning moment: enemies can shove me back, so move away from the lava.
Gonna be honest, I have never attempted the owlbear fight; I have Examined the owlbear and I don’t need that kind of heat at level 3, lol. All the obvious ways I can think of to do it either involve getting lucky (for example I’m pretty sure you win if it fails its save against Blindness, but it is strong in Constitution saves so it probably won’t) or respeccing your companions into cheesier classes (for example, everyone is Gloomstalker rangers and you blow it up from stealth on turn 1).
I have some ideas for approaching it with a balanced party (grease bottles to hopefully keep it prone?) but I’d definitely be sweating if I had to fight it that way!
I didn’t even try the owlbear fight because I had Talk with Animals on and the Ranger dialogue option was basically, “my bad my bad sorry didn’t mean to come in here please don’t eat us,” so I figured she knew better than me what we would be up against, so I peaced out immediately upon passing that roll check.
I ended up restarting (had made some decisions that were less than great) and was able to beat it pretty easy once I had someone able to output real dps (15-20 damage)
But yeah, I got lucky when I finally did win. I found it a lot easier than some of the other larger fights in the area.