• VinnyDaCat@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    Being rejected sucks and is a hit to your self-image

    A hit to your self-esteem maybe but you look all the better if you handle it nicely. If only guys understood that concept.

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        7 months ago

        How so? I never said you weren’t supposed to feel bad or that you couldn’t. Lick your wounds if you want. Just don’t lash out over it.

        It will make you a genuinely more likeable person if you don’t lash out at someone for rejecting you. No sane person wants to date an individual with a temper like that, especially if you put it on display before the relationship even begins.