• Linkerbaan@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    The more partners someone has had the less likely they are to stay with one.

    If you’re looking for a one night stand then sure. For long term relationships though…

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      11 months ago

      I disagree.

      More partners -> more experience + more learning about yourself -> knowing better what you need and want -> easier to find a suitable partner in a way that you know better what you need.

      I for one have been with a few ladies already and I value serious relationships much more than one night stands.
      I’ve been together with M’Lady (current) for more than a year.

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      11 months ago

      I’m older but no, no, no. Enjoying sex is important to me, and I think most people who enjoy sex got there with recreational sex. Both me & the husband had plenty of fun between relationships and both of us had had a 20 year monogamous run. Having sex with just one person is easier when you have the experience to know how good it is.