• essell@beehaw.org
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      11 months ago

      Loads of people have habitual attraction to unhealthy relationship patterns.

      Being drawn to the same kind of asshole over and over can feel like a chemical green flag, wisdom and experience show it’s a red flag and things always end the same unhappy way

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        11 months ago

        Fair enough, but it’s not like you should pursue people you don’t find attractive or have any chemistry with. That’s more of a self-red-flag that you need to work on yourself before get out there.