• TrickDacy@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I think the problem isn’t the “threat” but the implied “I couldn’t possibly care less why you’re crying”

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      11 months ago

      Yes, it’s invalidation of feelings followed by the infliction of physical violence to make the abuser feel better.

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        11 months ago

        I got hit many times. A few times it was physically a little bit bad, but typically I was more upset that my parents had “turned” on me to the point that they would even want to do such a thing. A lot of it is mentally abusive :(

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      11 months ago

      I would be traumatised by the threat because during these ages it is hard to take something not literally. But yeah, what you said counts in as well.